Apartment 304

•August 14, 2010 • Leave a Comment

We have our first apartment…

We’re still excited to have a place that is ours. For so long Bryce and I have been “renting” rooms, and while we have had good experiences, it’s still nice to be able to put your stuff how you want it, leave a dish or two in the sink and know that it will get washed (we’re both pretty neat), etc.  We found the location we wanted and because this is an island I need to throw a big thumbs up for the TWO parking stalls we have (this is huge in Honolulu), as I will be shipping my car over after we get married. Our unit is on the third floor, no elevator, but I think we will grow to appreciate the exercise.

We are slowly collecting furniture, so far all the pieces we have bought for the living room are “espresso.” I just like the way it sounds, and looks, the “espresso” furniture. The office is a combination of maple and black wood, kinda a yin and yang theme. LOL.

Overall I think we are both pleased with our choice.

Why make, then break, the rules?

•July 28, 2010 • Leave a Comment

WARNING: This is by far the most opinionated post I’ve ever done, but I observe my right to the First Amendment in the Constitution. This post is two-part, the problem and my proposed solution. Enjoy.

PROBLEM:

The recent immigration issue in Arizona has now reached a state of total chaos. I’ve kept my opinions to myself until now because I’m not the type to talk about politics and related issues. I mean the country, God bless it, is pretty jacked and I think we all know that, so why add my two sense. However, I am the “informed” citizen, a part of the working class or the glue that holds this country together, and so I can be silent no longer.

What I see in Arizona, or what I see in general brought on by the recent controversial issues surrounding immigration in Arizona, is this:  people are here in the United States without approved documentation and consent. Now, while I’m completely for change, opportunity and growth, I’m very against people who come to this country, don’t speak English, take advantage of our health care system, don’t pay taxes, and then send the bill to Uncle Sam who in turn sends it to me. Remember I’m the working class.  I’m going to be a little bold here, I’m not for illegal immigration.!

Let me throw a curve ball  by saying that I’ve been among those who cross the border. I’ve seen the poverty and despair that surrounds the citizens of Mexico  with my own eyes.  I speak the language and I’ve studied the history and culture. I can appreciate the struggle that immigrants make to improve their lives. But here in America we have rules, and the rules say you need a work visa or a green card through viable employment by an employer who is willing to sponsor you. Don’t have any of these? Then wait to take to become a citizen:

“Naturalization is the process by which U.S. citizenship is granted to a foreign citizen or national after he or she fulfills the requirements established by Congress in the Immigration and Nationality Act (INA).”

“America, the Land of Opportunity.”

What it should read is, “America, the land of opportunity for those who are willing to abide by the rules and make honest contributions to society by doing more than just agricultural labor.”

Ok, that was harsh, and stereotypical.

Yes, the Irish, Italians, and Germans came over back in the day and set up shop all around the New England area, but even they had to stop at Ellis Island.

Now we see the Feds getting involved. Why have local government if the Federal government is going to be the over-bearing parent and throw its weight around every time a state makes a sound decision? Why make rules, then break rules? Why do we continually send mixed messages to the world?

My soon to be brother-in-law got a ticket for something dangling in his rear view mirror, but yet we let thousands of people live and work in this country and they don’t pay taxes. It’s wrong.

SOLUTION:

Teach these people to speak English. It’s no wonder why Spanish will soon be the number one language spoken in the U.S., and I speak Spanish! In order to live here, you should have a working knowledge of the language, which should be true for any country.  Take all the teachers who have recently lost their jobs because the states don’t care about education and pay them to teach English to those who cross the boarder. Mandate a proficiency test.

Those employers who are hiring illegals should be held accountable, a fine, a fee, whatever, but something in ways of a penalty because they are also abusing the system.

50 questions to ask yourself…part 4.

•July 27, 2010 • 1 Comment
  1. Do you feel like anything in your life is holding you back from ultimate joy?

A: You are your own worst enemy. I constantly worry about everything and that often keeps me from feeling ultimate happiness. Despite all the wonderful things and wonderful people I have, my worries prevent me from recognizing the magic and joy in the world. Lately I’ve tried to not worry so much, to go at a steady pace and realize that I am strong enough to deal with whatever life throws at me. I just can’t help but to feel that all the wonderful things will disappear and all the wonderful people will leave and I’ll have nothing left.  Nevertheless, I’m happy, and so I’ll try to be optimistic, because I’m kinda a big deal!!

A different battlefield (A soldier’s return)

•July 16, 2010 • Leave a Comment

No more sand, no more dust,

no more guns, let them rust.

This is a different battlefield.

Remember the brave who stood by your side,

who will stay awake with you as you cry.

This is a different battlefield.

The dreams that you dream,

there not as real as they seem.

This is a different battlefield.

Another ounce that you sip,

another wound that you rip.

This is another battlefield.

So welcome home brave soldier,

welcome to this war.

This is the new battlefield.

What is your angry song?

•July 15, 2010 • Leave a Comment

I took a small poll in the College Works office today of songs my coworkers listen to when they’re especially pissed off, like they could choke someone, smash a window or drive the highway at terrorizing speeds. Here is what we came up with:

Will- “Snap your fingers, Snap your Neck”-Prong

Grant-”Five minutes alone”-Pantera

Rachel-”Indestructable”-Disturbed

50 questions to ask yourself…part 3.

•July 12, 2010 • Leave a Comment

Q: What is one quality about your parent(s) that you really loved?

A: I owe a lot of my sucess to my mom because she ultimately helped give me the tools I needed in life to be successful.  Her dedication to my sister and I was constant and unwaivering, but more importantly the time she took to do service for us is without a doubt the quality I love most about my mom.  Having kids at a young age, my mom could’ve very easily neglected our needs for her own pursuits.  Growing up, I always felt like my mother’s priority in life, and I will forever be grateful for the things that she has had to sacrifice so that I could enjoy my life.

50 questions to ask yourself…part 2.

•July 7, 2010 • Leave a Comment

In continuing with my 50 questions post, here is question #2:

Q:Do you believe you can have your cake and eat it, too? Why or why not?

A: I think for me personally I’ve always been able to have my cake and eat it too, however that doesn’t mean I should’ve eaten the cake just because I had it.  There have a few occasions where I was a little impulsive, I went ahead and did something for the moment because it felt good at the time.  Despite always trying to live my life with future consequences in mind, I’m only human and have fallen short occasionally.

My sister says I live in a different reality than everyone else around me.  Everything that I want, I usually get. I wouldn’t consider myself spoiled because I work hard for a lot of what has been given to me and I acknowledge by whose hand all the good fortune has come at me.  The different reality I live in is full of endless possibilities and eating the cake when it is right in front of you and not waiting until the next slice of cake comes around. I guess in mind there is still magic in the world, dreams do come true and you should have your cake and eat it too!!

Who would’ve thought…

•July 7, 2010 • Leave a Comment

Amber, Jessica, and I at Lanakai in Kailua

While in Oahu

•July 6, 2010 • Leave a Comment

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I was able to spend a month with Bryce in Honolulu. Here are photos of some of our adventures.

50 questions to ask yourself…part 1

•July 6, 2010 • Leave a Comment

I came across this website today with a very interesting premise. The author of the website (blog) apparently just finished readig a book called, Live What You Love, by Bob & Melinda Blanchard.  Sound like a self help story line, but the questions that the blog author came up with caught my attention because they are very basic questions yet have so many implications depending on the responses. I will try to answer some of the 50, maybe not all 50, but some.

Q: How do you really feel about what you are doing right now at this exact moment?

A: At this exact moment I feel content. I’m sitting in my office at work trying to stay productive. The weather outside is gloomy and it makes me want to be at home in my pjs watching old episodes of One Tree Hill. I feel like life is how it should be, that the next three months are to be what I make of them.  I just ate a Lean Cuisine for lunch so I’m not hungry, and now I’m chewing a piece of gum so I don’t worry about my breathe.  At this exact moment my office mates just came back from lunch and now I’m not totally alone in the office wich is nice cause it’s not as much fun. Even though work is a tad boring at time, I’m grateful to be employed!!

I will answer more of the questions during the week, check out the list for yourself at http://www.tiadpeterson.com/live-what-you-love-50-questions-to-ask-yourself/